Victimizing in itself is giving your power away. It’s telling the world, come and save me because the stones are being pelted at me or I cannot budge from the place where there is hurling of stones taking place. It’s blaming others for the lack of one’s own self esteem self respect and self belief. Expecting others to change in order to change yourself or your life is like leaving the keys inside the car and you trying to find them on the streets. Another instance where you being called names and you crying and losing your confidence because of thinking something being wrong with you rather than not accepting and entertaining any irrelevant behaviour is up to you by not reacting to it. The response and the inner strength is up to you to develop which will further empower you. There is a famous saying, “You want the world to change, first you need to change the person in the mirror.” Love and Peace!!