Settle down

Isn’t the phrase “settle down” a very frequent common term that we start hearing as soon as we are in our mid twenties. What it means by the masses is getting married…taking responsibility of other person and having kids. It does surely looks like settling down and what if you don’t want to settle down…you will be advised to settle down your mindset…settle down your aims and ambitions….settle down your goals…settle down your identity…but the ideology of settling down must not be shattered, even if it’s an outdated one. How will our evolution as a whole takes place with such a downward spiral where settling is the foundation of our lives and the lifelong goal is a person to settle down with and that too without disrupting the set timeline. No doubt, this settle down person will bear the repercussions of it….He/She will be cajoled controlled dominated manipulated in order to settle down. How about not settling and exploring the open and wide arenas of life to further evolve and be the best versions of ourselves..Cheers!!