Well….the first thing you got to do is, live in your present. Whatever happened has happened and who knows about the future? The art of living a tension free life is to take life lightly and don’t make it all about yourself. We are just a small being in this great universe. Learn to surrender and take charge at the right time. Surrender to the universe when the things are going out of your hand and take control when people around you are taking your little presence in this world. Being flexible in your approach to life where you know when to surrender and take control is the key to living a life with fewer worries.